心理老師給學(xué)生解決心理問題的回信 歲，18歲以下，你們的情感世界基本是不定格的，你們可能會傾慕上各種各樣的人。一些人年長你們很多，一些人遙不可及，但是，你們基本都喜優(yōu)秀的男生和女生，或者是一些家庭背景雄厚的男生和女生，相信我，這絕對是少女懷春，男生未成熟的一種表現(xiàn)。 2.在讀大學(xué)以前，我希望你們把時間都留給學(xué)業(yè)，緣分，交給上帝安排。 3.在求學(xué)的期間，你們會遇見很多的問題，如：學(xué)習(xí)成績不好，考試被不通過很多次，暗戀某個男生，女生，開小差，談戀愛等等。但是，請相信我，等你們進入大學(xué)以后，你們一定會有更多的機會遇見更多更優(yōu)秀的女孩，男孩，然后，你們會相愛，再后，你會忘記曾經(jīng)你喜歡過，有愛慕情感的人。（這個過程基本上每個男生女生都經(jīng)歷過） 總結(jié)：心理問題，在國外是一個相當(dāng)普遍的問題，那么，中國畢竟是個發(fā)展中國家，也并非所有的人都會一直去學(xué)習(xí)了解很多的知識領(lǐng)域，自然，多數(shù)的家長（除非是一些生意人）可能會比較的清楚心理領(lǐng)域的一些知識（因為見多識廣），基本在中國，這屬于一個盲區(qū)，因此，我們也要帶有一種包容的心態(tài)去看待中國人多數(shù)不接受這個問題的想法。所以，你們一旦有什么想不明白的問題，去一些正規(guī)的心理培訓(xùn)機構(gòu)，找個你們看的順眼的醫(yī)生（多方面的去了解他們的職業(yè)操守描述，個人簡歷等等，最好是心理咨詢師，好好聊聊，盡早解開心理領(lǐng)域的困惑。） Reply psychological teachers solve psychological problems for students years old, 18 years old the following, your emotional world basic is notfixed, you may admire a wide variety of people. Some older many of you, somefar fetched, but, you basically like good boys and girls, or some family background rich boys and girls, believe me, this is definitely a boy girl Huaichun,immature performance. University of reading in the past, I hope you take the time to study, fate, to god. the study period, you will meet a lot of problems, such as: the achievement is not good, the examination is not passed many times, a crush ona boy, a girl, desertion, love and so on. But please believe me, after you enter the University, you will have more opportunities to meet more and more excellentgirl, boy, then you will fall in love again, you will forget what you like, love the emotion of the people. (this process is basically every boys and girlsexperienced) Conclusion: psychological problems, in foreign countries is a very common problem, then, China is a developing country, is also not all the people will haveto learn a lot of knowledge in the field, the nature, the majority of the parents(unless some business people) may be more clearly some knowledge of psychological field (because informed), basic in China, this is a blind area,therefore, we should also with a tolerant attitude to treat the Chinese majority does not accept this idea. So, once you have something you want to do not understand the problem, to some formal psychological training institutions, find ayou look pleasing to the eye doctor (in many aspects to understand theirprofessional integrity description, resume and so on, it is best to talk,psychologist, as soon as possible to solve psychological field of confusion.)